Hey! Why I have very few friends is something even my husband wonders about. One time, we bumped into a couple of my old schoolmates, and he genuinely looked shocked. “Eh, ada kawan rupanya,” he said. Thank you, my husband. I, too, am surprised when people remember me voluntarily. HAHAHA.…

Hey! How my writing changed over the years is something I never really noticed until recently. One day, I scrolled through my old blog posts, and honestly, it felt like reading something written by a completely different human being. Either that, or a ghost possessed my younger self and decided…

Hey! Unexpected blessings in life have the funniest timing, and honestly, I think the universe is trolling me at this point. I don’t usually post two days in a row because my life is not exactly a Netflix series, but today something happened that made me sit down and write…

Hey! Stress and health screening are two things I never thought would collide this soon in my life, but here we are. Maybe I’ve mentioned this before, but about a year ago, I got transferred to a different department. I actually enjoy what I do, and I’m grateful to have…

Hey! Bullying doesn’t stop after school, and I’m one of the many proofs of that. I’m not ashamed to admit that I’ve been bullied even in my 30s. Not the physical kind, but the kind that sticks in your head and comes back whenever you’re alone. I’ve experienced name-calling, humiliation,…

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Hey! To get recognised at work can feel impossible sometimes, especially when you give your all but barely receive any acknowledgement. You handle extra tasks, meet deadlines, and even go the extra mile…but recognition and rewards often seem out of reach. Then, you akan feel frustrated and demotivated when no…

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Support my blog…three words I never thought I’d say out loud. This post wasn’t planned. But I’ve been sitting with this feeling for weeks. Writing has always been my way of breathing. Of making sense of things that I can’t always say out loud. This blog is my little corner…

Shaming isn’t always loud. Sometimes it comes wrapped in a joke, served with a smile. I’ve been shamed for a lot of things…my weight, my skin, my grey hair. And as much as I’ve grown from it, some things still sting. This isn’t a pity post. This is me taking…